The Art of Being Sexy

Women today think being sexy means you have to wear skimpy clothing, and do an awesome cat walk all the time. Nothing can be further from the truth. Lingerie worn correctly can be sexy. Even plus sized women can be sexy. You don’t have to have a models body to be sexy. Being sexy is a frame of mind, and you need to think you are sexy before you can be sexy.

When you see a woman that you think appears to be sexy, ask yourself “what is it about her that makes her sexy”? Being sexy starts with your own thoughts. You need to think of yourself as being sexy first and foremost. Once you start thinking this way, you can begin to transform yourself into a sexy woman. I have seen many fuller figured women that I considered sexy just because of how they carry themselves.

You need to start with the basics. Find a hair style that compliments your frame, and gives your face that sexy glow. Nothing works like hair. It sets the stage for everything else. Short, unkempt hair will not help you look and feel sexy. That doesn’t mean short hair can’t be sexy. Jamie Lee Curtis proved that! Style, that’s what helps. Next, take a look at your facial features. Use makeup that compliments your face. Don’t gob base on to try and build a foundation. It looks terrible. Use subtle bases that compliment your features and skin tones. Use eye shadow that blends well, and not too heavy. You want to enhance your eyes, not make the eye lids stand out. Dress sexy. Now this doesn’t mean wearing the skimpiest thing you can find. It means starting with your bra and panties. The right under garments can actually make a lot of outfits look sexy. A bra that lifts the bust and creates cleavage, or makes your breasts look fuller can make most outfits sexy. A high buttoned dress with a full breast appearance can look sexy. If you have shapely buttocks, then wear high heels and maybe a thong. What goes under enhances what goes on top.

Lastly, carry yourself sexy. Don’t walk with your head down, or slouch. Walk with your head high. Put one foot in front of the other when you walk to get a sexy swing going. If you carry yourself in a confident manner, it will carry over to others. When you look, use your eyes not your head. Nothing says sexy more than a sideways glance, with your head tilted slightly down. You can practice this in your mirror. Find what look works for you and use it.

Once you have figured out what works for you and your body type, use it! You are only as sexy as you feel!

How to Dress Sexy & Look Good in Sexy Clothes – Low Cut Dresses & Bum Hugging Jeans Are Out

How to dress sexy, I’ve said it over and over that to come across as sexy is about you and not the clothes you wear. Think about it, hold the dress you tend on wearing out in front of you and what does it say, that’s right “nothing.” Now slip the dress over your curves and see the transformation. If you don’t have curves then add a wiggle to your walk and the dress once again will appear different? Do you see where I am going with this.

Fair enough a low cut dress with a bulging pair of breasts hanging over it, or tight jeans showing the shape of your bits in much intimate detail may no doubt be seen as sexy, but it can all so be seen as sluttish. So forget how to dress sexy and learn more on how to become sexy. To be sexy will include different things like how you present yourself, the way you act, the way you talk even the way you walk. The whole purpose of wanting to look sexy is usually for the sake of others, but it’s difficult because every person has their own opinion on what they see as sexy. So how is it done?

It’s a catch 22 situation if you’re out to impress this way. If we only knew what the other person is thinking would make things much easier, however we don’t, and it’s a chance you have to take. We don’t want the person you’re attracted to… see you as the village bike, but to perceive you as being sexy from the way you present yourself.

Sexy can happen even when wearing baggy pants or high neck blouse. It only takes little things like pouting the lips, wiggling the butt in rhythm with each step you take, or putting on a husky voice to work. But once again will this swing it for you in regards to the person who you want to see you as sexy. Maybe their perception of sexiness is judged if you like, on posture, the way a person laughs or smiles, or the way they sit with their legs crossed, the list is endless. As long as you remember it is not all about dressing sexy, but to be sexy is the key.

Usually, people who look for advice on how to dress sexy, look sexy, or change a body part so it looks more sexier – feel inadequate about them self for some reason or another. Many women gripe wanting their legs more shapely, their figure curvier or their teeth straightened. And these same women who gripe have perfectly shaped legs, an hourglass figure and teeth straighter than a level. So this tells us the problem lies with their way of thinking when it resorts to this.

If you pick up a magazine you’ll read the same old hype that men find women with long hair sexy, and women, the man with a six pack. I am not sure about this. It’s like having a favorite color i.e. I like yellow, and you blue because you see it a prettier shade.

Sexy Tips:

– Nurture your personality to bring out sexiness
– Develop a sense of humor if you’re miserable
– Dress so your individual style gets noticed
– A healthy body is a sexy body
– Control the way you think because your thoughts make you into the person you are.
– Every woman regardless of shape or size can bring on sexy.
– A skimpy dress that doesn’t leave much to the imagination is not always the answer.

Wear your hair in a style that suits your frame, and gives the face a sexy glow. What if I don’t have long hair which is supposedly seen by men as sexy? Not to worry as short hair is sexy also – look at Demi Moore and Jamie Lee Curtis who have a huge following of male admirers and women too.

Cosmetics need to compliment your face. Too much slapstick is for the woman on the street corner waiting for a punter. Use subtle bases to bring out features and skin tone. Keep eye shadow to a minimum. If you believe clothes are the be all and end all of a sexy image then begin with your bra and panties. Proper fitting underwear can make an outfit appear even sexier. A bra that lifts the boobs creating cleavage makes the breasts look fuller. If you have a curvy bottom, then wear high heels, and instead of knickers wear a thong.

Don’t walk with your head down, or slouch. Keep your head in the clouds. Carry confidence with you at all times.

Stop whining it is a complete turn off. There’s nothing sexy about a moaning old biddy.

Quit cigarettes. Smoking is not sexy

Stay sober to stay sexy

Be friendly, everyone wants a friend. Sexy is part of the “you have a friend in me” package.

Smile at every convenience, not only will it make you feel good, but them whom you smile at too.

If you believe sexy is about how you dress then heed of the advice below.

Let the jeans you wear hug your bottom but “not” smother it.

Dark denim is ideal for most body shapes. Wear with a boob tube/bikini top and bright colored strap heels.

Jewelry is sexy. Wear colorful chunky necklaces and bracelets and bangles. If lots of pearls and beads are your forte, avoid wearing patterned blouses. Wear a monochromatic top with colored jewelry.

Black is voluptuous. It also makes you look slimmer and creates curves.

The thong is sexy so wear one.

Other tips:

Go dancing and train your body (salsa, ballet, hip-hop, and ballroom) to move more gracefully and sexily. Think tango and rumba classes to get a feel for movement.

Buy flattering lingerie in a style you haven’t tried before.Choose materials that fall gently on your body and emphasize your curves.

Stockings/Nylons and suspenders are seen as the ultimate sexiest garments

Wear high heels to look taller. When it comes to sexy women’s clothes, there is a thin line separating sexy garments from cheap.

To find out how to dress sexy then go back in time to the fashion of the late great Doris Day, Lauren Bacall, Jane Wyman and the Betty Grable’s. These women oozed sex appeal, “but” was it from the way they dressed that people found them to be sexy, or was it, the Bacall husky voice, Doris Day’s vocals chords, the fact Jane was married to President Ronald Reagan, or the million dollar legs of Betty Grable’s. You get to decide if it were their clothes or their other fine qualities that had them seen as sexy.


We sell womens sexy lingerie and clubwear. A friend of mine was going through our web site the other day, and asked me this question “Why do you guys say sexy and hot with the plus sized stuff ?” My friend just fell off my cool list. I thought my friend was cool, but, if he does not know the essence of sexy, then he can not be cool. Sexy is as sexy does! Sexy is not about being the perfect size. Sexy is not about being a supermodel. Sexy is not about showing skin. Sexy is the combination of many elements that come together. Sexy lingerie and clubwear are about accentuating those elements, no matter what size or shape the wearer is. I know the media still pushes thin. That’s because, it’s what they THINK, we want. They don’t know that plump can be sexy.

Women come in many sizes and shapes. All women are not sexy. All women can be sexy. The first step to any woman being sexy is, she must KNOW she is sexy. Knowing you are sexy is the base, the foundation, of the attitude that creates sex appeal. This is true for men and women. Self confidence is a very large part of sexiness.

Conduct is the next element in true sex appeal. Hold yourself up. Behave in a sexy manner. Be sexy. This does not mean be a floozy (polite term). Being easy, and sleazy, is not sexy. In fact, one of the elements of sexiness is mystery. Read my article on M.E.T (Mystery, Excitement, and Tease). IT is about giving yourself the presence of sex appeal.

Mae West was one of the most sensual women that ever lived. She was not some toothpick walking down a runway. Her sexiness oozed out of every poor in her body. She used her eyes, and facial expressions. She used her voice, and body language, to convey her sexual presence. She knew how to use her strengths, and hide her weaknesses. Mae West was a plump gal, especially by the time she did “Little Chickadee” and she had men drooling for her. She used her personality traits in a sexual manner. She acted sexy, she believed she was sexy, and therefore she was sexy. Even her wit was a sex appeal. Sexy is as sexy does. Marilyn Monroe was another great example of sexy presence, also not a size 2. I have heard women say, “Oh, I can’t wear that, I haven’t the body for it.”. If that is how you feel, then you are correct. If you look at it and think, “He is going to want to lick my high heels when he sees me in this.”. Then you have the essence of sexiness.

We have all seen women throwing skimpy clothing on, that is two sizes, too small. That is not sexy. That is a gross misuse of sexy clothing. Sexy lingerie and clubwear are tools that a sexy woman uses to her advantage. Throwing something on just to show skin, is like using a screwdriver as a hammer, you might get the nail in, but, your going to have to work a lot harder at it. To quote Mae West, “I like my clothes to be tight enough to show I’m a woman… but loose enough to show I’m a lady.”.

You need to be aware of what your strengths are, and accentuate them. You must be aware of what your weaknesses are, and now how to cloak them. Mae West understood this, and used her wardrobe as tools to enhance her sex appeal, not create it. Another Mae West quote was “You can say what you like about long dresses, but they cover a multitude of shins.”. Your strengths are going to be as individualized as you are. There have many many sex symbols throughout history, and the came in all sizes and shapes. Anna Nicole Smith (in all her sizes), Zsa Zsa Gabor, Delta Burke, Queen Latifah, and Cleopatra (was plumper than the movies ever showed) just to name a few off the top of my head.

Know you are sexy, have a sexy presence, learn what your strengths and weaknesses are, learn how to create mystery, excitement, and tease. Wear clothing that uses your strengths, and hides your weaknesses. Then you can find the essence of true sexiness. We can provide the sexy lingerie and clubwear for you to use in your arsenal, it’s up to you, the wearer, to use them correctly. The question is, are you sexy enough to wear our lingerie and clubwear? Sexy is, as sexy does. Since I used Mae West as an example, here are some great Mae West Quotes that embodied her sexual presence:

1. I don’t like myself, I’m crazy about myself.

2. You’re never too old to become younger.

3. It’s better to be looked over, than overlooked.

4. I like my clothes to be tight enough to show I’m a woman… but loose enough to show I’m a lady.

5. You can say what you like about long dresses, but they cover a multitude of shins.

6. Those who are easily shocked… should be shocked more often.

7. I generally avoid temptation unless I can’t resist it.

8. He who hesitates is a damned fool.

9. You may admire a girl’s curves on the first introduction… but the second meeting shows up new angles.

10. When a girl goes wrong, men go right… after her.

11. Too much of a good thing is wonderful.

12. When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I’ve never tried before.

13. I used to be Snow White… but I drifted.

14. It’s not the man in your life that counts. It’s the life in your man.

15. A man in the house… is worth two in the street.

16. A hard man… is good to find.

17. Give a man a free hand… and he’ll run it all over you.

18. To err is human — but it feels divine.

19. A man in love is like a clipped coupon — it’s time to cash in.

20. Good sex is like good Bridge… If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.

21. I go for two kinds of men. The kind with muscles, and the kind without.

22. I like two kinds of men: domestic and imported.

23. So many men… so little time.

24. Save a boyfriend for a rainy day, and another, in case it doesn’t rain.

25. Marriage is a great institution, but I’m not ready for an institution yet.

26. Is that a gun in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?