Your Guide to Sexy Women’s Lingerie

A lot of people think that sexy womens lingerie is all lace bras and sheer panties, and while these items are prevalent in the lingerie world, they are really only the tip of the iceberg. Opaque and sheer lingerie is actually available in a variety of shapes and sizes, meaning that there is a style out there for every body type and comfort level.

Let’s take a look at the different kinds of sexy lingerie:

Sexy Bras

Bras are pretty much inherently sexy (probably because of the things they get to hold), but there are certain styles that can make them even more alluring. Embroidered and lace sexy bras are very popular, because even though their designs are elegant and flattering, they can still offer a great deal of coverage and support, especially when structured with built-in underwire. For a slightly racier look, many women choose sheer bras, which have the same coverage and support as regular bras but are made appealing by their semi-transparent fabric. Finally, truly confident women choose to wear shelf bras. These “open bust” bras cup on the bottom while leaving most of the breast uncovered. Because of their lack of coverage, shelf bras are impractical for daily use, but ideal for more intimate settings.

Sexy Thongs and Panties

When it comes to sexy womens lingerie, sometimes less is more, and this is definitely the case with thongs. Sexy thongs are available in quite a few cuts and materials, even leather. Some women prefer high-waisted sexy and sheer thongs, which hold in your tummy while flaunting your butt to its true potential. Others choose super-low lace thongs for a decidedly skimpy look. But for the ultimate in scintillating, it’s go small or go home – and that means G-string sexy thongs. Leaving little to the imagination, G-strings are many women’s (and men’s) favorite sexy and sheer thongs.

Sometimes, of course, you need a little more coverage than sexy or sheer thongs can provide. This is when sexy lingerie panties come into play. A lot of women love boyshorts, which despite their name are rather sparse, making for a cheeky look. But classic high- or low-waisted cuts can be likewise irresistible – choose a pair of sheer lingerie panties for an especially sexy look that leaves just enough to the imagination.

Final Thoughts

Of course, many sexy and sheer lingerie items are pieces from larger sets, meaning that if you like your sexy womens lingerie, you can expand your collection with items like garters, camisoles, gowns, and robes. Because sexy lingerie isn’t just about bras and panties – it’s about creating an experience with all the right components. Still, when shopping for sexy womens lingerie, it’s important to always keep comfort in mind. Some women aren’t ready to wear sexy bras like shelf bras or g-string sheer thongs, and there’s nothing wrong with that. To ease into new types of sexy or sheer lingerie, many women begin by wearing the items underneath their clothes during the day, even if nobody gets to see them. That way, they can become more comfortable in their sexy lingerie and be better prepared for some heated experiences down the road.


Some years ago, I faced a new challenge: how to be sexy. I wanted to take on a dangerous, edgy, exciting persona that would make women want me and desire me and seek to move fast with me. At the time I didn’t quite know how I’d go about it, but I decided to work on cracking the code to this new sensuality nevertheless.

Two years later, I have women coming to bed with me faster than ever, receive instant strong attraction the moment most women and I first speak, and time and again am told how attractive, sexy and handsome I am. These things happened but rarely back in early 2008, but they are regular and consistent occurrences now.

The roadmap to how I went about transforming myself from a chill, friendly, casual guy to an edgy, dangerous, sexy man is what I want to talk about with you here. So sit back, fasten your seatbelt, and let’s help you start turning some girls’ heads!

Why Should You Want to Be “Sexy”?

First let’s answer the question why you should take time to work on making yourself sexy. Rather than labor over becoming a man that women find alluring, why not take that same time and focus more on getting yourself a promotion at work or saving up for a nice new car instead?

I know of a guy who’s doing just that. He’s the same age as me, and has a great big house, bought and paid for. He drives a flashy, expensive car. And his job is rather prestigious. But he can’t get a woman to save his life.

Me? I’m jobless, scraping to get by at the moment, and don’t have much more to my name aside from the computer I’m writing this on and a few changes of clothes… but I keep ending up with a lot of beautiful women. I was in California, and now that I’m out here in Asia, I am here too.

My accommodations here are a bit better, but in California, I was bringing girls home to a tiny little room in a buddy of mine’s house that I was paying next to nothing to stay in, and they STILL chose me over the wealthy, successful guys!

I could cite many other guys I know who are advancing rapidly in their careers and spending on big ticket items left and right and yet are terrible with women, and many other guys who are dead broke and, like me, still successful with women. And we’re not talking trash women, either – every long-term girlfriend I’ve ever had was beautiful, had a fantastic personality, had or was in the process of getting her Master’s degree, and had a great, prestigious, well-paying job.

And these women chose me over the various young successful men they encountered daily at their workplaces and in their social circles.

Why is this so?

Here’s the truth: women are not interested in toys. Expensive cars and widescreen TVs are GREAT… for impressing other men. If you want to impress WOMEN, you have to work on YOU.

And sexiness, you will find is one of the most important ways you can do that.

Sexiness gets you instant attraction. Before the competition can mention their Porsches or seaside homes, women are already into you. You might be successful, or you might not be – it doesn’t matter. Because when you’re sexy, women like you INSTANTLY, rather than you having to wait to try and impress them (and often fail to succeed) later on in the conversation.

Sexiness lets you get to sex faster. Women don’t let un-sexy men move fast; they slot them into the friend zone, or into boyfriend territory. If you’re sexy though, women will go to bed with you FAST – then YOU are the one in control of the interaction.

If you want her to be your girlfriend, great.

If you only want to spend one night with her, that’s great too.

Once you’ve gone to bed with a girl, you can choose. You can’t make that decision before you’ve slept with her, though – if you want to make a girl your girlfriend and you haven’t taken her to bed yet, she may very well end up being another man’s girl if he gets her in bed faster. Sexiness puts the power of choice into YOUR hands.

And sexiness inspires women’s friends to help you get together. Believe it or not, when you’re sexy, women’s friends will go above and beyond to try and HELP you get together with their friend. They won’t do that for un-sexy men, I guarantee you.

There are a great deal of benefits to being sexy.

But how do you pull it all together and start shaping yourself into a sexy man?

Becoming a Sexy Man

Once you’ve decided to make the plunge and turn yourself into a sexy man, a little personal remodeling is in order. Here’s what you need to focus on to take your sexiness to a new level:

* Fashion. Start revamping your fashion sense. This takes a little time, and having a good sense of fashion is like any skill – the more you work at it, the better you get. Start with clothes that fit you tightly and well and show off your figure (even if yours isn’t the best figure in the world… still better than big, baggy clothes like most guys wear), and check out fashion magazines to see what sexy men are wearing these days.

* Facial Expressions / Eye Contact. Facial expressions are a huge part of being sexy. So much of sexiness is what you say WITHOUT using your voice. One of the best tools you have available for learning sexy facial expressions are the movies – check them out. And don’t forget to use the “corner of the eyes” trick – you’ll notice all the sexiest men and women look sexiest when they’re looking at you out of the corner of their eyes.

* Sexy Smile. Ever notice the difference between a friendly smile and a sexy smile? A friendly smile is a full smile, and it shows the teeth. A SEXY smile, on the other hand, is only a hint of a smile, and the lips stay closed. There’s more mystery to it – and mystery is a component of sensuality.

*Voice. Your voice is such a GIGANTIC part of how you communicate with other people. But have you ever taken time to tweak it or refine it? Most men haven’t.

Yet, think of the difference in how listening to a beautiful woman with a news reporter’s voice speak affects you, and how listening to a beautiful woman with a SEXY voice speak affects you. COMPLETELY differently. The effect of hearing a man speak with a sexy voice is different on a woman too – practice turning your voice into a sexy one to start affecting women in a very different way.

*Conversation. Most men view conversation with a woman as “their time to shine.” The spotlight’s on them, and it’s their job to be as impressive as possible. They talk about their trips to other places, their job, their hobbies, their possessions.

Do you know what sexy men talk about with women? Sexy men talk about the woman they’re talking with. They drink her in. They comment on her. They get her to tell them about herself, to open up to them.

Turn the focus of your conversation off of yourself and onto the women you’re with, and you’ll find they start to like you a LOT more.

Becoming a sexy man is well worth your time – it’s an investment, but it’s an investment you make in yourself, and in your future. Best of all, it’s a FREE investment – so there’s no reason not to start transforming yourself today!

Your friend,
Chase Amante

Mens Guide to Buying Sexy Lingerie for a Wife or Girlfriend

Sexy lingerie Buying Guide for men

I feel sorry for most guys when they are looking to buy sexy lingerie for their special person.

Let’s face it, when we women go shopping for Sexy Lingerie, we visit every shop and every online store before deciding what’s best.

How on earth can we expect the guys to pick the perfect sexy outfit or sexy lingerie when we struggle?

The guys don’t even know our size at the best of times so how on earth are they going to manage choosing different types of sexy lingerie with all the different styles and colour on offer?

Well help is at hand and hopefully our step by step guide will aid in the guy’s picking the perfect sexy lingerie for their partner.

It is always a pleasure to receive sexy lingerie from your loved one as a gift but as stated it’s not even easy for us women so below I have made a list of the top tips for choosing sexy lingerie.

When a man is choosing lingerie he should bear in mind it’s not about pleasing himself and deciding what he likes, it’s all about what you’re loved one will like and most importantly feel comfortable in.

Lingerie Size

Before you go shopping whether it’s online or in a retail store, make sure you have already checked your loved ones size.

Check her drawer for the size of her lingerie; ask her sister or friend, or pull out all the stops and do the washing just so you can check the size.

If you really are struggling to get the size then you may be best opting for a piece of lingerie that does not require the exact size such as nightwear, like a gown or nice babydoll.


As mentioned earlier comfort is key. This relates to looking and feeling comfy.

Imagine that you have only ever seen your loved one in a pair of granny knickers or nice pair of lace style knickers, well if you go out and buy a very skimpy piece of lingerie or a very small thong, then the chance are you are going to be imagining what they look like on your loved one rather than seeing for yourself.

Think of something your loved one would like to wear, not what you would like to see them in.

I’m not saying just buy what she already has, but take it step by step be a little daring but don’t go overboard.

Choose sexy lingerie that’s trendy or is in the public eye, don’t buy lingerie that is outdated as most women follow fashion and are likely to bury the lingerie in the bottom of their drawer if too old fashioned.


It doesn’t matter how much you have to spend there is wide variety of sexy lingerie or accessories that can help spice things up such as silk stockings, garters, suspender belts, masks, leather cuffs, whips, nightwear, sexy clubwear and sexy costumes, the list goes on.

There are lots of different styles of sexy lingerie, so don’t limit yourself to one style and try out different combinations such as a babydoll, and nice seductive teddy, or a nice sexy nightwear gown.

If you’re not sure ask someone, ask the sales rep at your local store, don’t be embarrassed that’s what they are there for and they don’t bite.

Still struggling? find an online store, drop them an email be honest and describe what you’re after, at the end of the day the store wants to sell you the right piece of lingerie so that your loved one is happy and you return for more.

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